BDSM, mwachidule ku ukapolo ndi chilango, kulamulira ndi kugonjera, ndi sadism ndi masochism, ndi machitidwe ogonana omwe amaphatikizapo kusinthana mphamvu ndi kukondweretsa thupi kapena maganizo.BDSM yakhala nkhani yotsutsana pakati pa anthu ambiri chifukwa chogwirizana ndi ululu, ulamuliro, ndi kugonjera.Komabe, BDSM ndi mchitidwe wovuta komanso wosiyanasiyana womwe umaphatikizapo zochitika ndi zokhumba zingapo, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti timvetsetse kupitilira malingaliro olakwika ndi malingaliro olakwika.
Chiyambi cha BDSM sichidziwika bwino, chifukwa chimachokera pazikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, mbiri yakale, ndi maganizo.Akatswiri ena amati BDSM yakhalapo m'njira zosiyanasiyana m'mbiri yonse, monga kugonjera kwaukapolo mwamwambo m'zitukuko zakale, machitidwe odziletsa komanso kudzivulaza m'zipembedzo, ndi chitukuko cha zolemba zolaula ndi zaluso zomwe zimakhala ndi mphamvu ndi matsenga. .Ena amanena kuti BDSM inayamba mu nthawi yamakono monga yankho la kusintha kwa chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe, monga kukwera kwa anthu payekha, kufunsa za maudindo a chikhalidwe cha amuna ndi akazi, komanso kufufuza za kugonana kwina.
Mosasamala kanthu komwe idachokera, BDSM yakhala chikhalidwe chosiyana chomwe chimaphatikizapo madera osiyanasiyana, mabungwe, zochitika, ndi media.Ogwira ntchito za BDSM nthawi zambiri amapanga madera ogwirizana omwe amagawana mfundo zofanana, zikhalidwe, ndi miyambo, monga kugwiritsa ntchito mawu otetezeka, kukambirana za malire, ndi chisamaliro pambuyo pake.Maderawa amapereka chidziwitso chakukhala nawo, chithandizo, ndi maphunziro kwa okonda BDSM ndipo angathandize kuthana ndi mchitidwe wosalana ndi tsankho zomwe angakumane nazo m'madera ambiri.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti tiyandikire BDSM ndi malingaliro omasuka komanso osaweruza, chifukwa zimakhudza machitidwe ogwirizana ndi akuluakulu omwe savulaza ena kapena kuphwanya ufulu wawo.BDSM si njira yopatsirana kapena yopatuka, ndipo itha kukhala njira yathanzi komanso yokhutiritsa kwa anthu kuti afufuze za kugonana kwawo, kufotokoza zokhumba zawo, ndi kukhazikitsa maubwenzi apamtima ndi ena.Komabe, ndikofunikira kuvomereza kuti BDSM ili ndi zoopsa ndi zovuta zina, monga kuvulala kwakuthupi, kupwetekedwa mtima, komanso kusalinganiza mphamvu.Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuchita nawo machitidwe a BDSM moyenera, mwamakhalidwe, komanso mozindikira.
Kuti mukhale ndi zochitika za BDSM zamphamvu komanso zokhutiritsa, ndikofunikira kuti muzilankhulana momasuka komanso moona mtima ndi anzanu, kulemekeza malire awo ndi zomwe amakonda, ndikuyika patsogolo chitetezo ndi moyo wabwino.BDSM imafuna kukhulupilika kwakukulu, kulankhulana, ndi kulemekezana pakati pa okondedwa, chifukwa kumaphatikizapo kutengeka kwakukulu, kukhudzidwa kwa thupi, ndi mphamvu zamphamvu.Choncho, ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa malamulo omveka bwino komanso omveka bwino ndi zoyembekeza, kukambirana zomwe zili ndi malire a gawo lililonse, ndikusunga malo otetezeka komanso othandizira.
Pomaliza, BDSM ndizovuta komanso zosiyanasiyana zogonana zomwe zimafuna njira yotseguka komanso yodziwitsa.Pomvetsetsa chiyambi chake, zikhalidwe, ndi machitidwe ake, tikhoza kuyamikira kusiyana ndi kulenga kwa kugonana kwa anthu ndikutsutsa malingaliro ndi tsankho zomwe akatswiri a BDSM amakumana nazo nthawi zambiri.Pochita nawo BDSM moyenera komanso mwamakhalidwe abwino, tithanso kufufuza zokhumba zathu, kukulitsa kulumikizana kwathu, ndikulemeretsa miyoyo yathu.
Nthawi yotumiza: Feb-28-2023